Sockets are OK - just have to make sure they actually fit the drain bolt. 6-point sockets are preferred over the 12-point ones. As for adjustable, I agree, just too much slop in there to get a good bite on the bolt, way too easy to have it slip and end up rounding off the bolt.
As for the filters - all of them are great. I think the WIX one actually makes the Napa Gold filter. Pick whichever one you can find at the best price - can't go wrong with any of them.
As for tips - I think you probably picked up most of them on this forum. Only things I can add are to pre-fill the filter before you install it. Takes no time to do, any oil that gets dribbled on the filter end - you can use that to dab onto the gasket/o-ring - ensures that you have some oil in there on the first start. Follow the directions on the oil filter - they usually say something like tighten an additional 3/4 turn after the gasket makes contact - sometimes they print it on the filter itself. Each filter is different, so make sure you find out first before you get ready to pre-fill it.
Drain plug gasket - if it isn't too distorted, you can reuse it. If in doubt - replace it, lots of material out there - fibre, composite, rubber faced aluminum, soft aluminum crush washer, etc. Don't need a whole lot of force to tighten it - you can use a box wrench or stubby wrench to tighten it, as there is only so much torque you can apply onto the bolt with that short of a lever arm.
Don't forget to put in the fresh oil - you'd be surprised how many people forget on their first oil change. Easiest way to start is to lay out all your tools and supplies, that way they are readily at hand. Put some cardboard or similar under the car to catch any drips/spills of oil. Have plenty of heavy duty shop paper towels or rags, brake cleaner solvent works great at washing down parts - degreasing them. After you are all done - run the car a bit to circulate the new oil, shut it off and let it sit for a few minutes - then check underneath for any leaks. Check the oil level often to make sure there are no leaks and to monitor if you need more oil or not. If you overfill slightly - should be fine, but if the oil level is a good 1/2" or 1" higher on the dipstick - you put way too much in and need to drain some back out.