Some people have used the larger 90915-YZZD1 filter from a V6 Camry on their 4 cylinder cars without issues, some have not been able to utilize those filters. All depends on the mounting pad for the filter on the target car. If the pad is overly corroded, has lots of surface damage, or too small - cannot use the larger filter. You'll have to look at the mounting pad and see what it looks like - if you are unsure, you could always spin on the larger filter and monitor the engine closely for leaks, etc.
This was the case in my cars - the pad was too corroded (salt damaged) to use the larger filter without any leaks. I could have resurfaced those pads, but the time and energy to do so was more than any filtering benefit I could pickup for my particular usage levels. So I just used the "tall" filters - the 90915-YZZF1. With periodic UOA testing - the insoluables were well within a safe level. So the tall filters were good enough for me.
All depends on the car - some need more filtration than others - depends on the engine health, driving conditions, and how it was driven. Ex. My old 1996 Camry - I coudl run a 5K conventional oil change on the smaller filter (90915-YZZF2) and have UOA that look like my 10K oil change on synthetic on the Corolla. That Camry's engine worn down just perfectly - that's why it has almost 400K miles on the original engine, consumes about 1/2 quart over the 5K interval. In contrast - my company 2003 Tundra truck with 90K miles couldn't hold past a 5K oil change (synthetic - Pennsoil Platinum) without spiking some key wear metals and insoluables. Trying to extend its oil change interval would be foolish, as the truck really hammers the oil. That and the number of different drivers involved - that truck sees a lot of abuse.
The TOY640 wrench - you'll have to order that tool. Can be ordered from the dealership or any number of online retailers. I think I got mine on Amazon - just searched for one that had the best price and in stock.