If all wiring is standardized, are the connectors as well?I have a couple of aftermarket wiring adapters, but they do not work for the stock radio.
The connectors are not standardized across the entire automotive industry, let alone between OEM and aftermarket.
This has to do with "Zero Defect Assembly" If the connectors are different, say one square connector for power and one rectangular for speakers and each connector has a tab on it that lines up with a slot on the stereo, then it is impossible to put the power harness into the speaker slot and visa versa, it is also impossible to insert the stereo harnesses the wrong way.
They use different connectors on different cars because they have different stereos that require different inputs and have different outputs.
For instance, Toyotas and Pontiacs will not have the same stereo connectors (except the Vibe and Matrix) The reason for this is that the Toyota's stereo is simply a stereo, it only needs power, ground, antenna and speaker outputs.
The Pontiac's stereo is much more than a stereo, it is a databus controller. It alone operates the OnStar system, the central timer, which is responsible for the intermittent wipers, defroster timer, dome light time out, etc. It also contains some programming for the vehicle's anti-theft system as well as the keyless entry. That stereo not only needs the wiring the Toyota has, but about 30 more wires in total.
Clearly you can not use the same harness for those two stereos. Since the harnesses are different, the connectors end up being different as well so there is not confusion about which harness is for what vehicle.
Wiring colors are a different story. The adapter harnesses you buy to plug into your factory harness so you can splice in a new stereo without hacking your original wiring follow industry standard color coding. That means that most times you can connect the adapter harness to the aftermarket stereo harness by color alone.
BTW, I highly recommend that anyone who is replacing their stock stereo buy an adapter harness. It simply plugs into your old harness and gives you wires to splice your new stereo into. When you go to sell the car, you can pull the new stereo out, unsnap the adapter harness and you still have your factory plug intact to plug back into your factory stereo. Not only is this easy for you because you can splice the wires outside of the car, but it is nice for the next owner because if they want to go to an aftermarket system, they can just use an adapter also instead of dealing with a hacked up wiring harness like some of you have found in your cars.