The fact people need a switch to remember to turn on the headlights at night (automatic on/off system, not DRL) is just pure laziness.
You can call automatic things laziness all you want, but they really aren't.
Do you know how much more you can concentrate on avoiding accidents when the car remembers you and your perfect seating/ mirror positions as well as your radio stations and your preferences for automatic locking, lights, etc? Or how much more you can concentrate on driving when you have all your mirrors dim automatically as some jerk with his high beams on pulls in behind you? Or how about how much more you can concentrate on driving when you don't have to look at the stereo or climate controls to change a radio station, CD track, stereo volume (which automatically increases as you drive faster) temperature, fanspeed or mode of the climate control because you have fingertip steering wheel controls of those functions.
The reality is that the fewer things you have to touch in a car the more you can concentrate on driving. If I can not ever look at a stereo, climate control, instrument panel, I can be looking at the road and cars around me always. If I don't have to touch a stereo, climate control, light switch, wiper switch, I never have to take my hand off the wheel. If I have my seats and mirrors adjusted to their perfect positions for my body, I'll be more alert and attentive. If my electronic companions, ESC, TC and ABS ride along with me, I don't have to worry about locking up brakes, spinning tires or sliding in a vehicle that is easy to do all those things in (because cars with these items as standard features are usually powerful and heavy). If I don't have to concentrate on pumping brakes I might actually have a chance at avoiding an object in the roadway.
Now if you don't like those type of features, fine, but don't say they are laziness and make people bad drivers. The people who have those type features may be bad drivers, but they are bad drivers because they choose to do other things than drive. They don't use the features they were provided with in the manner in which they were meant to be used. Those features were made solely to allow you to pay more attention to driving, not to allow you to have time to text while driving down the freeway.